<p>The 'Love Story' hitmaker, whose former flames include Taylor Lautner and Joe Jonas, hates to carry a relationship on her shoulders. Instead, she is happy with her voice being heard once in a while, Contactmusic reported.<br /><br />"I want a guy who takes charge, but lets me have my say once in a while. A good relationship is all about balance and chemistry," Swift said.<br /><br />After her recent split with her 'Valentine's Day' co-star Lautner, the 20-year-old beauty insisted that she would never go in search for love.<br /><br />"I don't wake up in the morning and think, 'Am I going to find a boyfriend today?' I think it's more exciting if it's right in front of you and you can't ignore it, with someone who has this unexplainable draw," the singer said.<br /><br />Swift, who famously draws inspiration from her relationships for her songs, said that it doesn't help her boyfriends treat her differently.<br /><br />"Every guy who walks in my life has had a fair warning that this is what I do. I've been this way for three albums. It's easy for guys to forget that I write about everything because it's my job and they're in a relationship with me," she added.</p>
<p>The 'Love Story' hitmaker, whose former flames include Taylor Lautner and Joe Jonas, hates to carry a relationship on her shoulders. Instead, she is happy with her voice being heard once in a while, Contactmusic reported.<br /><br />"I want a guy who takes charge, but lets me have my say once in a while. A good relationship is all about balance and chemistry," Swift said.<br /><br />After her recent split with her 'Valentine's Day' co-star Lautner, the 20-year-old beauty insisted that she would never go in search for love.<br /><br />"I don't wake up in the morning and think, 'Am I going to find a boyfriend today?' I think it's more exciting if it's right in front of you and you can't ignore it, with someone who has this unexplainable draw," the singer said.<br /><br />Swift, who famously draws inspiration from her relationships for her songs, said that it doesn't help her boyfriends treat her differently.<br /><br />"Every guy who walks in my life has had a fair warning that this is what I do. I've been this way for three albums. It's easy for guys to forget that I write about everything because it's my job and they're in a relationship with me," she added.</p>