<p class="Question"><strong>Hi Saheli,<br />There is a middle-aged, bald man in my apartment complex who keeps staring at me. He lives opposite my balcony. This has made me very conscious and I never wear shorts or anything revealing in my house. I’ve stopped using the balcony too but we have large windows. Recently, I saw him looking at me through his binoculars. I feel a little silly to complain. What if he’s looking at birds?<br />Tina</strong></p>.<p><em>Dear Tina,<br />The only windows people should be staring at is the one on their computer. This man sounds like a creepy pane. Next time you see him pointing his binoculars at you, take a picture of him. Make sure he sees you clicking it. If he is a phoney birdwatcher, that should scare him and you will have the evidence to present to your society committee. Let him know that this bird isn’t for watching.</em></p>.<p class="Question"><strong>Dear Saheli,<br />I am a cancer survivor. When I was going through my treatment, all I wanted was to get better. Now that I am well, small problems are creeping in — my wife annoys me, my boss is an idiot, and I get angry at petty issues. Why haven’t I learnt anything from my experience?<br />Vasanth</strong></p>.<p><em>Dear Vasanth,<br />Congratulations on fighting and winning the battle of cancer. Cut yourself some slack. It’s okay not to be the wisest person in the room. These annoyance-tumours are normal and a part of everyday living. Don’t forget, you’ve survived cancer. Now, you can do anything including becoming a more happy version of yourself.</em></p>
<p class="Question"><strong>Hi Saheli,<br />There is a middle-aged, bald man in my apartment complex who keeps staring at me. He lives opposite my balcony. This has made me very conscious and I never wear shorts or anything revealing in my house. I’ve stopped using the balcony too but we have large windows. Recently, I saw him looking at me through his binoculars. I feel a little silly to complain. What if he’s looking at birds?<br />Tina</strong></p>.<p><em>Dear Tina,<br />The only windows people should be staring at is the one on their computer. This man sounds like a creepy pane. Next time you see him pointing his binoculars at you, take a picture of him. Make sure he sees you clicking it. If he is a phoney birdwatcher, that should scare him and you will have the evidence to present to your society committee. Let him know that this bird isn’t for watching.</em></p>.<p class="Question"><strong>Dear Saheli,<br />I am a cancer survivor. When I was going through my treatment, all I wanted was to get better. Now that I am well, small problems are creeping in — my wife annoys me, my boss is an idiot, and I get angry at petty issues. Why haven’t I learnt anything from my experience?<br />Vasanth</strong></p>.<p><em>Dear Vasanth,<br />Congratulations on fighting and winning the battle of cancer. Cut yourself some slack. It’s okay not to be the wisest person in the room. These annoyance-tumours are normal and a part of everyday living. Don’t forget, you’ve survived cancer. Now, you can do anything including becoming a more happy version of yourself.</em></p>